A year ago today I woke up at 6 am on the induction ward at Birmingham Women’s Hospital. I had been having mild contractions all night after having a propess pessary administered twice. The day before I had been told that if I was 3cm dilated or more then I would be put on the list to have my waters broken. That had to be done on the delivery suite because if active labour didn’t start shortly afterwards then I would need to go on a hormone drip to get labour moving.
When I was examined I was 3cm dilated, hurrah, and so was placed on the list to go to the delivery suite. I was having contractions for most of the day. The intensified a bit and at one point were happening every 2-3 minutes, but they were quite short in duration. They started to slow down, though, and by the evening had stopped completely.
Conscious of the couple the day before who had said they had been there for 3 days, and not wanting to have to stay that long I asked the midwives where I was on the list to go to the delivery suite. I was 3rd. I asked quite a lot of questions including:
- Could I go down in the middle of the night- yes I could and I would just have to go to the delivery suite with my belongings
- Should my husband stay overnight? – no, they didn’t know how long it would take for a bed to be available for me on the delivery suite, but not to worry, they would call him if I moved and he would meet me there.
- How long, at most, would it be before I could move to the delivery suite? – it was unusual, but not unheard of for women to stay 2-3 days. Generally they didn’t like women to stay any longer than 3 days as they became cross and teary.
I told them I had had contractions all day, and although I was put on the CTG monitor twice that day I wasn’t examined at all. I was told that if I was 4cm dilated (I think it was 4cm, I can’t remember, may have been 5) I would be moved downstairs pretty much straight away and they would find a bed for me. I think I mentioned my older son, that he was only 2 and had only been away from us for 1 night before now. It was his last week of his school holidays and his last week being an only child. As I was having contractions, and had expected them to continue, I arranged not to see my son that day. I didn’t want to worry him with mummy being in pain, maybe not being able to hide it from him.
My husband is self employed and so he spent the days with me. Thank goodness. I so looked forward to him arriving after 8am. We spent the day wandering the Hallway. There were only really two to wander up and down. We went to the cafeteria and found the restaurant on the bottom floor. We got to know the routine on the induction ward. Whenever I left the ward I told them where I was going in case my spot came up. It was a dull day, but I was on the list and by the end of the day was 3rd on the list. The couple who were 3rd on the list the night before went down to the Delivery Suite in the afternoon, so I still thought it wouldn’t be long before it was my turn.
That night I managed to go to sleep a little earlier, but it was still a very disturbed night with all the comings and goings on the ward. I read, I watched TV on my phone – the WiFi was good thankfully. It would happen soon. So it thought.